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Deppression, Feelings of being alone

Unread postby HealthForum » Sat Mar 26, 2011 7:58 pm

I'll try to sum up my situation as best I can. I turned 21 in June. I'm a guy. In college. I commute, which was a huge mistake

Basically I have no friends. If I died today, I'm sure the funeral would be empty. Before, only a few months ago, I use to make the best of it and play my video games in my room by myself. I'd drive straight home after class. I was avoiding social situations because I was scared of alcohol, scared of being awkward, scared of going to parties and ending up standing in the corner by myself.

The reason why I'm depressed every single day now and I can't stop replaying the missed opportunities for friends and even girlfriends, is because I met some wonderful people on the internet. I can't really explain it, but this girl I talk to has completely made me re-evaluate my life and realize that I've done everything wrong.

I am just alone, and I hate it. I don't want to accept that its just the way I am. I don't want to be a loner. I see people in groups and hanging out all the time, and I desperately want to be part of that. But everyone seems to be in their own clique. On the first day of orientation for college, I noticed already that everyone was in their own groups and seemed to already know each other. This frustrated me greatly.

The reason I'm like this is high school. I came out damaged severely mentally. I was accepted by virtually no one, and the small group of friends I thought I had, continuously betrayed me in the end. He said on graduation day "I know it seems like I don't like you, but I do". Well, the damage was done by then. Every day in high school was miserable, not because of physical violence, but because of continuous verbal assaults and jokes about the way I look. They wouldn't let it go ever, and eventually, I closed myself off from everyone. I became completely silent and the little social skills I had left deteriorated. Someone always gets the short stick in high school, I guess it was me. I was nerdy or fat, the best way I could put it is I'm multi-ethnic, so I didn't identify with any of the groups there. It was just a constant issue, no one could get over the fact that I looked like no one else there

Fast forward to today and I find myself depressed, day in and day out. All I do is replay through all the people I've let down and didn't pursue friendships with because of my introversion. I have 2 years left in college and it starts back Tuesday. I desperately want to belong somewhere. I desperately want to fit in but I fear its too late. I'm sick of being alone

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Re: Deppression, Feelings of being alone

Unread postby heryander » Tue May 31, 2011 5:38 am

Depression is not at all good for the health, depression is a feeling of being alone, a person always feel alone, insure and try to avoid everyone but that is not good for his or her life,in this situation it is necessary for the other people to take care of the person and take to make them happy and secure.

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Re: Deppression, Feelings of being alone

Unread postby lindaalbert » Wed Jun 15, 2011 10:38 am

Follow ramirakos guidelines.. extremely those are good...

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Re: Deppression, Feelings of being alone

Unread postby LavernMiler » Fri Jul 01, 2011 6:25 am

Depression can actualize feelings of loneliness, consistent from the isolation that you find yourself in. Your depression can build negative thoughts and feelings within yourself that will support sustain your feelings of getting alone.

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Re: Deppression, Feelings of being alone

Unread postby luluyan » Wed Jul 06, 2011 2:12 am

I'd like to say it is inevitable that we feel deppression and lonely in our life.But it is just a little part of the life,just a flavor to make life more complete.So if you always feel that you are alone and deppression,you must take actions to make some adjustments to make your life colorful.

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Re: Deppression, Feelings of being alone

Unread postby francesbelle » Wed Jul 13, 2011 1:27 pm

Any form of help will take time but really the only person that can help is you. You have got to want to improve your quality of life. You have got to want to rid yourself of this cloud hanging over you and the depressive world you are in at the moment.

Start by concentrating on all that is good in your life, all that nature has given you and provides for you. This is a great healer and nobody can take it away. One reason for a number of forms of depression is a sudden change of circumstances where a person has too much time to think and the mind starts to play tricks.

Depression does not only occur on adults but as well as with kids and teens. Depression can affect people of any age, race, ethnic or economic group. How tell if someone in your family is depressed, visit this site for more details on teen depression.

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Re: Deppression, Feelings of being alone

Unread postby suzireyan » Thu Jul 14, 2011 12:23 pm

There are many people think that the are alone and then they go in to depression. You have to make new friends and always have to chat with the other people, with that you feel good and fresh.

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Re: Deppression, Feelings of being alone

Unread postby ryhangill » Mon Aug 08, 2011 9:43 am

Depression is a feeling of being alone which is not at all good for the health. Depression lead to death also. Depressed person never lead a happy life. It is necessary for a person to follow some of the tips which would help to reduce depression like meditation, drinking plenty of water, doing yoga and walking and many more.

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Re: Deppression, Feelings of being alone

Unread postby davilgill » Thu Sep 08, 2011 6:42 am

Depression is not at all good for the health as well as for the fitness of the body. Depression is a feeling of being alone.Depression lead to make a person rude, aggressive and even force him or her to commit suicide. It is necessary for a person to avoid depression as how as possible and life life happily.

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Re: Deppression, Feelings of being alone

Unread postby onlinesilk1 » Fri Sep 09, 2011 10:56 am

Adults forget about exercise when suffering from depression. Make sure you are exercising daily and sending more oxygen to your brain cells. Poor sleep may disturb your life style so sleep well. Share your problems with your close ones and friends. Busy yourself in other activities.

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