Hi, KattyK. I'm really sorry that this journey is so difficult for you. but you're not standing still and it's good.
Regarding a clinic choice, there are so many things that play a huge role in the process, and no one could tell you what is the best for you. I should defo trust your guts. I mean if you think the first clinic is that bad, then why you're thinking about being with it? or maybe you know that your negative experience was kind of a hasty conclusion made without real reasons? I see that you are really concerned about little things and maybe you'd better try to assess the situation once more? think of pros and cons of every clinic one more time and compare positive aspects. wish you lots of luck!

Sounds not bad! I think it’s great that they offered you to visit the clinic one more time.If they are a reputable clinic, they would do all possible things to please you. I would advise you to weigh all pros and cons and then make the final decision. Just trust your gut and listen to your heart. Once you’ve decided to deal with them, read the contract twice before signing it. At any rate, I wish you good luck in your ED journey!

I'm sorry for your problem Katty, it's awful indeed. But you're on the right way. Choosing a clinic is a half of success I believe. however, the way you choose yours is pretty weird to me. I, for one, don't even pay attention to people in a clinic because I don't care. It's nothing IMO. If you have such negative impressions then it's not the best place for treatment, don't you think so? maybe your expectations were too high?we all are people and sometimes it's hard to manage one's time properly, but I don't think it's the most important thing when trying to become parents. But if you are going to visit it once again then your impressions must be different. if not, you'd better find better place for treatment. It's just my opinion. Good luck in whatever you choose

We had a long talk with my hubby the other days. He says we should visit this clinic one more time. They seem to have rather high success rates. In addition, their prices are really suitable for us. We can afford treatment in Biotexcom. Frankly speaking, I feel so nervous these days. I want to be mum so much.

KattyK, I’m really glad for you. It’s great that you’ve made your final decision. At least, your ED journey will start and you may become a mummy soon. I send loads of baby dust for you and wish you good luck. Looking forward to hear about your updates, hun!
P.S. I think you should stop worrying, hun! Just believe in better things and they’ll certainly happen to you.

ours seem to have been a struggle before we really knew what was wrong with me. i have been in marriage for 6 years and all things looked perfect except the conception. finally, the doctors diagnosed a genetic issue with me and only advice that i opt for surrogacy or IVF with limited chances.the task of looking for the right clinic wasn't easy, some to the far east, India and Ukraine. my hubby is supportive and we recently stumbled upon one clinic in Ukraine. though still planning the modalities of travel, this seems to be our only hope with the good reviews they have. their cost at this biotex clinic seems manageable since they cover for pick up at the airport and accommodation. they promise to solve the issue of egg as they have fresh eggs in their database. we have been making daily contacts t ensure everything is fine. i understand its a popular point for Americans and Europeans, what do you think? please advice.

What I can tell you is that based on my observations, more and more people choose countries that you mentioned. It was kinda strande for me you cause I wasnt sure that service can be at high level there. I asked some of my friends what do they think about Ukraine, its medicine and living condition just to clear up the thing to myself. And they told me there was nothing to worry about. Yes this country has some things that can be strange for us, but we all have our special aspects but in general it's an ordinary country. So, I continued my little researh and found clinic in Kiev, biotexcom is i'm not mistaken. good references. hope you'll find this info useful for you.

Hey Katty, I had come across a post describing a similar situation as you did on a forum. The user had not mentioned the clinic's name, though. She had asked whether to choose clinic which had many patients waiting in queue or the one where the clinic looked empty but the staff was really polite. As starwoman suggested, looking through their success rates is one good idea before deciding on what clinic to choose. I would like to know if you have made the choice and if you have had the treatment by now, please tell us where did you do it and how was the expereince.

Have you consulted with the doctor? after the age of 35, it's difficult to have a baby. I did a lot of research on it and even I had faced the same situation a few years ago. It takes a lot of time to change and managing the emotions.

For this time you need the support of your husband. You need a lot of love and anxiety support to get a baby in future. Don't loose hope! If you understand the reason behind what happened to you and why you are facing this kind of situation then you can overcome it.

Lot's of love and I wish you face infertility like a strong woman. Much Love!

Sara

This sounds very shady. Why is it handled so differently and why is egg donation illegal in so many countries?