Hello everyone,

I am 17 years old and 13 weeks pregnant. Me and the father of the baby recently broke up. I just can't get over the fact that we are seriously done. He was my first love and i am just so heart broken and depressed. It's to the point that i love my baby with all of my heart but having the baby around will just be a constant reminder of what used to be between me and the father of the baby. I'm so lost on what to do. I know if i gave my baby up for adoption i wouldn't be able to live with myself. Also, the father of the baby is threatening me with custody when the baby comes along. I dont think he would be able to get custody but it still scares me to death. What if he does? Then what the hell will i do? I feel so lost, being so young and pregnant, being alone, family doesnt seem to care, in love but not loved back. Help please..

I feel really sorry to hear that you are pregnant at a small age which is 17. However there is no point in thinking and feeling upset about the past incidents which cannot be corrected back. Be self confident, one day whoever born as females would become a mother. If you are still worried, please contact a counselor or your doctor for some advices. Don’t worry, everything will be fine.

It’s been a while now is it? Just excited to know whether it was a baby boy or girl? How is your baby doing? Guess she/he must be 4 or 5 months. Keep sharing your experience about the child birth. Hope it would help many people to understand the real fact behind your story.